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Gay Aspies @ Soho

16/12/2020

A group for Gay and Bisexual men on the autism spectrum to meet and hang out in a relaxed, non judgmental environment.

I might go for a drink or something to eat after feel free to join me :-)

Shine & Dine @ The Falcon, Clapham Junction

11/12/2020

Hello Guys!

We've been shut away for far too long! A chance for us to get together before Christmas for festive food and drinks, have a laugh, catch up and make some new friends and acquaintances along the way.

PLEASE NOTE
This event is STRICTLY limited to 6 people. We will be on 1 x table of 6, hosted by Ian.

Gay Aspies @ Voho

9/12/2020

A group for Gay and Bisexual men on the autism spectrum to meet and hang out in a relaxed, non judgmental environment.

I might go for a drink or something to eat after feel free to join me :-)

Twilighting @ Central Station, Kings Cross

4/12/2020

Hello Guys!

Anyone want to meet tomorrow (Friday) for a few drinks and a substantial meal from their £5 menu. We officially finished lockdown. It will be nice to meet people from this group in real life. Let me know guys, I have booked a table for 6.

This is simply a drinks and food gathering, a chance for gay and bisexual men to get together, hang out and unwind after a long week with like-minded guys in a relaxed, non-judgemental environment. There's no particular structure to the evening, just come as you are, at any point!

We will have some drinks and food in Central Station. Central Station is a legendary gay bar with three floors (and a roof terrace!). Boozing, cruising, disco, cabaret & food, a stone's throw from Kings Cross.

Happy December Twilighting!
Rory D xxx

Shy Bis & Gay Guys

Shyness and social anxiety can hold guys back from forming meaningful platonic and romantic relationships. It can be tough enough ‘coming out’, but being introverted can make it even more of a challenge and sometimes you need a gentle push.

So, whether you consider yourself to be ‘gay’, ‘bi’, ‘bi-curious’, ‘pansexual’ or any other label; whether you are ‘in the closet’, ‘out’ or in the process of ‘coming out’; whether you are vulnerable or feel at risk, this group brings us together. We embrace those who have experienced depression, anxiety, loneliness or isolation, especially if you may be considered on the spectrums of ADHD, Autism & Asperger’s, Bipolar, OCD and/or Schizophrenia.

You may be a highly sensitive person who experiences intense highs and lows to an extreme degree. You may be an artistic Creative with a vivid inner world hidden and locked away. You may feel easily overwhelmed by large groups of people, unsettled by the turbulence of the LGBT dating scene or sidelined/neglected in a whirlwind of rapidly spinning social circles. Anxiety may have even prevented you from moving forwards in friendships and relationships with other people because you are afraid of either hurting or getting hurt. This Meetup group is designed for you!

Have you ever taken years to build up the confidence to go to an event only to be disappointed? Want to attend an LGBT event but held back by your shyness? Simply come as you are. There is no need to pretend anymore. This is a get together for people who do not want to be on their own, to feel comfortable and foster a nice, friendly circle of people. And if you would like to come but do not feel like talking much, then that is cool, too! Take it at your own pace.

Queer Lifestyle

Queer Lifestyle is about more than simply accepting and embracing different gender identities and sexual preferences. It transcends those bubbles. In the sense that people can learn to love and accept themselves, even if they did feel "different", in any way, shape or form. This group encourages people to cultivate self-love through their life experiences and activities.